WARNING:
long post ahead,don't read if not interested.
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THE STORY OF HOW MY GIRLFRIEND AND I GOT TOGETHER:)
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Many of you have been asking me about ky and how we got together!
finally i've found time to blog about it! sorry:/
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DID YOU KNOW..
It took us 1year 6 months to talk each other...why?
Let's rewind things back to 2010~
When I first join ITE(hair fashion & design)
Ky and I first met in the first year of school as classmates.
And she had a bad bad bad impression of me!
why?
For the first few months of school,everybody was very united and talks to each other..
So one day in the com lab. I sat beside ky to do our presentation slides~
It was my first time making a conversation with her :D
she was very shy and very quite. it's actually me asking her all the questions..
so we talked talked talked till she told me she like shou luo!
which i think she's more in love with him than she loves me~ kidding :P
She told me she is his wife and i was like..what?! dont bluff me la...
Then her attitude was like don't believe then don't believe loh..
Then we continue our work and i glanced at her phone and her wallpaper was a guy hugging her!
so i asked,'your boyfriend ah?'
she blushed and she didn't want to admit!
so while she was doing her presentation,i secretly take a look at her phone wallpaper and saw..
you didn't lie! omg! omg! omg! (in shock)
then she was like eh dont tell people leh..
as she didn't like boasting~
and trust me IT TOOK ME ALOT TO GET THIS PICTURE FROM HER!
so i like somehow gave her my word that i wont tell anyone luh..
BUT i didn't know she was serious like some kind of big secret mah~
so when i went back to class my classmate asked me what we were talking about and i told him!
THEN HE TOLD ALL THE GUYS ABOUT IT!
omg........... then from that day onwards. she didn't talk to me again :(
To her clique,i'm a big mouth!
Not knowing that she actually disliked me for the past 1 year!
stupid me.
haha it's so funny when we talk about it now as i will tell her,
wah piang it's not like a big secret like you got pregnant and i tell out like that~
then she will like no no no you broke my trust haha!
---PART II---
And as many of you know we met during our Internship with L'Oreal
So during the end of our course,afew students were selected to be Loreal's intern
which we first had to pass the interview which i didn't think i would get selected!
and and when the result was out... that tyson and kuanyun will be gg into loreal..
all my classmates were like whatttt.. this is gonna be so awkward.
And when the news got to us...
In my mind- omg this is gonna be so awkward as she's so quite and shy D:
In her mind- omg so suay! wtf! of everybody is this dao mei de da zui ba...
Hahaha after we got to know each other we told each other what we thought about each other in the past
and it's so funny to know how had that bad impression about me!
I find it so drama that we were once like enemies and now lovers!
You know what ky told me? she said she had no intention to even be friends with me..
and she could never see herself getting together with me!
I'm the last person she will think of getting together with!!! :'(
omg she makes me sound like some jerk like that~
hahahah!
---PART III---
During our internship we really got to know each other alot better..
and both of us started to be really comfortable with each other and started to be more open to one another~
so when we work we literately meet each other everyday and i will pour all my unhappiness to her..
she really had been there for me when i was once so down.
someone who has so much patience and was more like a bestfriend to me.
we both never had the intention to even be more than friends but just one night,it struck us both.
It actually struck me first.
I thought about it. about her.
that you know from young you always have this vision of your future partner,that how perfect he/she will be..
like for my vision i see my future partner will have
(what i've observed when we were as good friends)
These are just afew examples
There are more like responsibility,understanding and and
another fun fact about her is that she doesn't like attention which makes her so different!
she just wants to be this ordinary low profile girl whom nobody knows~
She doesn't even have a social networking account! (Fb,twitter,blog) and she isn't materialistic etc etc
the list just continuesssssssssss
which we first had to pass the interview which i didn't think i would get selected!
and and when the result was out... that tyson and kuanyun will be gg into loreal..
all my classmates were like whatttt.. this is gonna be so awkward.
And when the news got to us...
In my mind- omg this is gonna be so awkward as she's so quite and shy D:
In her mind- omg so suay! wtf! of everybody is this dao mei de da zui ba...
Hahaha after we got to know each other we told each other what we thought about each other in the past
and it's so funny to know how had that bad impression about me!
I find it so drama that we were once like enemies and now lovers!
You know what ky told me? she said she had no intention to even be friends with me..
and she could never see herself getting together with me!
I'm the last person she will think of getting together with!!! :'(
omg she makes me sound like some jerk like that~
hahahah!
---PART III---
and both of us started to be really comfortable with each other and started to be more open to one another~
so when we work we literately meet each other everyday and i will pour all my unhappiness to her..
she really had been there for me when i was once so down.
someone who has so much patience and was more like a bestfriend to me.
we both never had the intention to even be more than friends but just one night,it struck us both.
It actually struck me first.
I thought about it. about her.
that you know from young you always have this vision of your future partner,that how perfect he/she will be..
like for my vision i see my future partner will have
(what i've observed when we were as good friends)
- Patience
- Kindness and always thinking for others
- Trustworthy
These are just afew examples
There are more like responsibility,understanding and and
another fun fact about her is that she doesn't like attention which makes her so different!
she just wants to be this ordinary low profile girl whom nobody knows~
She doesn't even have a social networking account! (Fb,twitter,blog) and she isn't materialistic etc etc
the list just continuesssssssssss
We both actually are very opposite to each other~
It's like what she has i don't
And what she don't, I have.
stuffs like i'm more self centered and all when she's not.
and stuffs like she doesn't have confidence when i have!
and there are many many more!
and that's why i find both of us so compatible :)
and knowing i've found this person,
i started to think about my feelings and thought whether i was serious or just treating her as a replacement
as my last relationship was 2 months ago.
and my feelings was so sure just so certain that yes thats the girl i want to spend my life with.
someone whom has nothing to hide from me when we know each other so well
even all our flaws.
You know I've found the mistake why all my previous r/s didn't work out.
It's that we should get to know each other better...
You see the thing about out usual relationship is that when you two are attracted to each other
and started texting each other and dating with the clear intention of being together in a r/s.
Then both the guy and the girl will usually act as someone so perfect,with no flaws.
and when you get together,the first 6months-1year,
everything was perfect for that period of time till both of you started dropping the act and showing your true self
all the flaws starts to surface and all the quarrels starts
quarreling everyday,trying to change each other which is the hardest part
So most tend to give up or tolerate it for many more years
and the relationship still fails.
I'm glad i started off this r/s well and i'm confident that this is different.
and i'm very certain that she's the one.
and i love her.
PS: I don't care what you guys think but i'm the one in this r/s and i know. i can feel. and i need not say more but only time will show.
It's like what she has i don't
And what she don't, I have.
stuffs like i'm more self centered and all when she's not.
and stuffs like she doesn't have confidence when i have!
and there are many many more!
and that's why i find both of us so compatible :)
and knowing i've found this person,
i started to think about my feelings and thought whether i was serious or just treating her as a replacement
as my last relationship was 2 months ago.
and my feelings was so sure just so certain that yes thats the girl i want to spend my life with.
someone whom has nothing to hide from me when we know each other so well
even all our flaws.
You know I've found the mistake why all my previous r/s didn't work out.
It's that we should get to know each other better...
You see the thing about out usual relationship is that when you two are attracted to each other
and started texting each other and dating with the clear intention of being together in a r/s.
Then both the guy and the girl will usually act as someone so perfect,with no flaws.
and when you get together,the first 6months-1year,
everything was perfect for that period of time till both of you started dropping the act and showing your true self
all the flaws starts to surface and all the quarrels starts
quarreling everyday,trying to change each other which is the hardest part
So most tend to give up or tolerate it for many more years
and the relationship still fails.
I'm glad i started off this r/s well and i'm confident that this is different.
and i'm very certain that she's the one.
and i love her.
PS: I don't care what you guys think but i'm the one in this r/s and i know. i can feel. and i need not say more but only time will show.
